How to build self-confidence?

In our life we cannot rely and should not rely on others for happiness, if we do so we will be left feeling incomplete, unhappy and dissapointed. We should work onourself to be truly happy. And we are truly happy, when we achieve what we want .for this we need to develop self confidence and also maintain our self respect.

We mistake self confidence with self importance, self confidence is self respect rather than self importance.

Here are some powerful ways to boost your confidence:

1. Bring on positivity:

no matter what condition you are in, always be positive. Be enthusiastic about your work, and also add enthusiasm when talking to your friends and family. And this is the right time to evaluate your circle, even though its really tough, you need to get away from those who put you down and shred your self-confidence.

2. Stop responding to negative thoughts:

every time thinking negative thoughts will lower your self confidence. Although you cannot stop thoughts to come to your mind, but whenever you come across negative thoughts switch it immediately to a positive affirmation and keep it up until it hits the caliber of a self-confidence boost.

3. Groom yourself:

No matter how you are feeling, get up, take a shower, dress up and go for work. Its really amazing how a shower and dressing properly can make a difference in how you feel. It can change your mood around completely with this one little thing. And better appearance will help you boost up your self-confidence.

4. Always have patience:

Self confidence doesn’t happen all of a sudden. You might fail to achieve your purpose but not meeting your purpose around the first time is an opportunity to learn about yourself, and know yourself better. Self confidence develops very slowly. So you have to be patience and grow self-confidence, a bit at a time.

5. Bounce back from your mistake:

No one is perfect in this world, even the most confident person in this world have many insecurities. Its normal to feel that we lack something. This is reality. Life is full of ups and downs. No matter what, these feelings come and go. However if you make mistakes, the best thing that can be done is to recognize your mistake and avoid it in the future instead of feeling bad about what you did in the past. This will gradually help you grow your self-confidence.