How to propose a girl?
Love doesn’t need any method to express. But if you have been unable to express your feeling then you can follow our tips so that it can help you to propose.
So if you have found a girl you want to spend rest of your life with, how do you ask her to be yours forever?
Remember you should put your nervousness aside and make a plan, by making a plan you’ll be able to propose the girl without any blunders. You don’t have to do anything over the top or crazy. The most important thing is that you speak from your heart and find the perfect way to let her know what she means to you. Also remember proposing a girl is a very big step in a life.
Now let’s get started with the steps below:
1. Make sure she is the one:
The important thing is to know that you love her and consider her to be “the one”. Write down or think through a list of all the reasons that make you want to marry her. This will help you to express your love to her at the time of proposal, also to conform yourself that you are making the right decision.
2. Decide when to propose:
it is very important to get the timing right. It is not possible to say that there are perfect times for propose but it is important that you propose at the time when you are not rushed and when you feel calm, sorted and ready. When you have planned the proposal in detail, then the time is right.
3. Decide where you will propose:
The place of proposal will be remembered forever, remember that you are principal creator of the atmosphere. You can purpose absolutely anywhere, but choose a place that will be meaningful for both of you and also where you can feel comfortable, calm and natural. For instance where are her favorite places? Does she love sunset, beach, tall building, bridges etc? Or maybe she’d prefer private screening in a local cinema? But remember what is more practical? The harder you try to create a special occasion, the more things can go wrong. Sometimes it’s just easier to focus on what you know will work and will be appreciated for your efforts.
4. Decide how you will propose:
Once you’ve decided the when and the where, you have consider more details of the how needs. There are many possibilities and it’s entirely up to you what you do, here are some suggestions:
Try the traditional pose: Bend down on one knee, take her hand in yours and ask her to be yours. The beauty of this gesture is that it’s universally recognized, and it can be performed anywhere.
Get a sense of whether she’d like something public or a bit more private: Though many women are proposed to in public in the movies, in real life, most engagements are private. You may think it’s a great idea to propose to hear at half-time during a sporting event or at an intimate party with several of your friends around, but she may be mortified by all of the attention. Plus, if it doesn’t go well, you’ll feel even worse in front of a bunch of people.
5. Be creative:
There can be a number of other ideas for proposing that involve some more planning but can be really entertaining as well as confirming for her that you’re the kooky guy she wants to spend the rest of her life with. You could prepare her very own word puzzle or crossword in which the final answer spells “Will you marry me?”
Be dressed in your best according to the occasion and choice of place: Dress well to be sure that you’re as handsome and attractive as can be. This is a very special occasion and it deserves to be “picture perfect”. She’ll appreciate the effort you’ve gone to.
6. Practice:
If you’re going to propose, it pays to practice. Practice asking, and practice explaining the reasons as to why you love her so much that you want to spend the rest of your life with her. This will help you avoid being tongue-tied when the important moment comes up. This doesn’t mean you should put a lot of pressure on yourself. Though it helps to make your girlfriend feel extra special, in the end, she may only remember the words, “Will you marry me?”
7. Propose:
Keep the proposal simple, to the point, and from the heart. For example: “Kate, I love you more than words can ever express. You’re the most thoughtful, generous, kind, and beautiful woman I’ve ever had the fortune to know and I’d be honored to have the chance to spend my life with you. Will you marry me?”
If she says yes, end the proposal with a kiss or a hug. And don’t forget to put a ring on her finger!
